I have a friend. We won't use any names, but this friend is a she...in London...and I'm not calling Ryan a girl. She is what I call an emotional collector. Someone that desires to be the focal point of men's casual and sexual thoughts. The type of person that loves to be adored as if she were a princess, and sadly she gets this adoration.
I'm not saying that wanting to be showered in affection is wrong, it's just that it leads to a lot of selfish desires. Because once you get what you want without having to work for it long enough, it becomes the routine and in turn becomes expected. Tsao is now going to adopt some remarks from a good man named Gandhi that I feel are applicable to this behavior.
When Arun Gandhi last saw his famous grandfather, the old man gave the boy a piece of paper with this list of mistakes that lead to violence:
* Wealth without work
* Pleasure without conscience
* Knowledge without character
* Commerce without morality
* Science without humanity
* Worship without sacrifice
* Politics without principle
I feel that this can be applied on a micro-sized life level as well: *adoration without empathy.
Once you are a collector of people's attention and adoration, the seed of jealousy and anger is planted. No more will you be able to enjoy the company of other sexy females, as they are now in the "competition" category. They are just somebody that stealing the spotlight of affection from your stage.
Bottom line: If you want somebodies attention, you can go about it many different ways. I highly suggest you take the Tsao road and earn it...just like the other girls...send out nude pics.
...and no baby bird, I will not get you a glass of water.
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I believe the clinical term is "Psychic Vampire". . . to wit:
Psychic Vampires
When an attack takes place, the Psychic Vampire receives an energy surge while the victim experiences fatigue.
People who "suck" the energy of others are called "psychic vampires." This "sucking" takes place when one's energy is depleted and needs to be replenished so he or she "sucks" the energy of another person. It is not unusual for a person who is ill or feeling inadequate emotionally to draw upon or deplete energized individuals of their life force. These "suckers" are not bad people, most of them are not aware on a conscious level that they are doing what they are doing. Still, their unknowing actions can play havoc with anyone who leaves an energetic opening for this type of thievery. It is important for us to be aware that we may be susceptible to having our energies stolen from us and learn ways to protect ourselves.
See also:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Energy_vampire
http://www.tsao.org/
Wow, that girl sounds like a crazy bitch.
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